Best Excuses are still No Good Reason

When we're trying to justify a reason (ahem, excuse), we can come up with a hundred clauses for the "why".
Then we believe it, own it, and convince others of it. I'm not digging into anything too personal, I'm simply talking about rationalizing through "excuses". Regarding exercise!

Can't...falls under Reason. Reasons are totally understandable.

I can't go to the gym my kid's sick...
My boss needs me to stay late, I can't meet up for our run tonight...
My foot has grown awful corns, I simply can't go for a run.
(Ewwww, in RL we'd be laughing and feeling really bad for that person)
I haven't shaved in a week....not a reason.

Now the word Excuse, defined as......
//an attempt to lesson the blame, attaching a fault or offense, to defend or justify.

Lets just get rid of the word excuse. It's ugly. And clearly hurtful.
Instead of excusing your way out. Turn your excuses around to the positive.

You can DVR your show and go for a run. If you have time to watch TV, you have time to workout. Watch the show later - sweaty, satisfied and with a smoothie.

You can avoid that "heavy" feeling from overeating. Eat a light & healthy lunch, snack on a granola bar while in route to the gym and then head home for dinner.

You can be out of breath and dripping sweat. Shoooot those two things are part of some awesome moments...if you really think about it.

You can wear just about anything you want when exercising. The older the better (except for shoes). In this case, like every case in Walmart, your outfit doesn't matter much. I will forever preach this. I'm a sucker for new fitness clothes and drool over some Lululemoon but in all reality, I might as well dress for mowing the grass.

You can pick a gym with a daycare and use it.

You can workout while pregnant. It's wonderful. And many gyms cater to it. Instructors will almost always ask if anyone is pregnant and offer modifications to supplement the program. Working out while pregnant is one of the best things you can do for yourself (upon Doctors approval). I am grateful for all the Hatha Yoga and cardio I did during my pregnancy, I swear it helped me through labor and recovery.

You can work out stress via a good workout verses a cry-fest, movie, and ice cream. If you make yourself try this just one time, you will forever fight stress through a good workout. I could tell you of countless times I have ran my way through every ounce of anger and anxiety towards bad situations.

You can bring your girls to the fitness class, on a run, or a Downtown walk. I have nearly peed myself in a ball class and a step class due to my friend Crystal. I will not tell you about the time this 7 month pregnant, me, tried Zumba (for the first and last time) and on the "body roll move" had to nearly excuse myself...horrific laughter, pregnant women can not roll their bodies. Or the time she faceplanted during an "inchworm" exercise. Or how about, back in 2007, Sarah proved me wrong. I could run 2 miles without stopping.

You can figure out and develop a routine that keeps you excited. Go to different parks offering trail runs, find one that keeps your mind off your aching feet. Track your mileage, as you shortcut through neighborhoods, on your way home from work, then walk/run that route. Pick gym classes with current instructors and perhaps, more importantly, current music. Stream fitness right into your home via GaiamTV. Try TRX if you're sick lifting weights. Join a CXWORX class if you can't bear the thought of another sit-up.

You can be sore for a day or two. It happens. You will manage. I have had to literally use my hands to lift my leg up and over the baby gate, for multiple nights. I have been too sore to laugh and felt as if people were torturing me with their humor. There is so much truth in the soreness phase of exercise. It is proof that you challenged yourself and is allowing of time to rest for recovery.

You can loose weight and tone up. It does not happen in one visit or in a weeks worth.
And it surely won't happen by simply reading this post. It might take a year. But it will happen for you.

It happens for everyone who sticks with it.

I'm constantly aware of my moods towards exercising. Prior to this last month there was never a doubt or hindrance on my mood towards getting in gear and to the gym. No matter who much I had to do to get there, I was getting there.

A month later, I've thought, "how in the hell, did I ever, do all this"?! We're talking -work a full day, round up two kids, feed one dinner, pack pajama's and night snack for ride home, drop one at daycare, lock the other to the beanie at Rockwall, pee and then race to my step, all within 45-60 minutes. Oh yea, and change my clothes.

Trust me, I have constructed many excuses to not make it to the gym. But I've worked through them and I am elated each time. There is no better feeling (ok, really, there are many) than finishing a routine, a run,  set of reps, a 4 minute plank, a night of training for a race, etc.

Take these positive spins on popular excuses and find your better feeling.
Limits are made by excuses. Why set limits on yourself?



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Scared of the gym? Top 10 reasons not to be.

Lets be real.
Each one of us at some time or another has held a fear large or small towards the gym.
Hopefully, that fear has diminished and not prevented you success in the gym.
If not....my hope is to help you overcome them, now.

10 reasons to NOT be scared of the gym.

I am scared everyone will watch me.
This is probably the most common of all fears. People Watchers.
They are not at the Gym. They are at Walmart or the mall. If you find one at the gym, they do not matter.
We are all very busy people. Members of your gym, like yourself, have tight schedules and most likely, a limited time to spend at the gym. Their priority is fitness, not you. Yes, you may notice someone glance at you but if you really spend time facing this fear....you will see that no one has the time to really watch you.

I can't do a single push-up, pull-up, or sit up.
That's ok! No one has ever started at the top!
We all start from somewhere.
Try a push-up against the wall.  Push-ups on bent knees or at an incline. Modify sit-ups .....
Find the piece of equipment that trains your muscles for pull-ups. It exists! This piece of equipment has a bench for you to kneel on and is spring loaded, so that, when you reach above head for the bars, you glide up and down...eventually removing the kneeling pad.
Learn the proper modification for the exercise you want to do.
Again, consult with an instructor for direction. Take a level 1 class. Sign up for water aerobics.

I do not know how to use the equipment. Where do I start?
Think of the gym as a small community.
Get familiar with the equipment available to you and make a mental map. Straight forward to the elliptical then a left to the free weights and then a quick right to the floor mat for crunches.
Start with 30 minutes, 3 times a week. Progress to 1 hour, 3 times a week, etc.
Remember, a good gym is able to cater to needs of all fitness levels.
You do not need to fear the gym equipment.  Most times the equipment has pictures, suggestions for exercises and muscles groups targeted. If not, ask an instructor to demonstrate, they are paid to help you and are happy to do so. Your gym should have resources readily available to you. Use them and understand how to control the equipment so that it doesn't control you.

I don't have clothes for the Gym.
This excuse fear just needs to die out. It's horrible.
Let's look back at #1 reason to not fear the gym. People do not go to the gym for outfit inspiration.
And, in case you are wondering...any old pair of cotton shorts and any old t-shirt, holey or not, is perfect gym attire. You do not need to wear the latest Nike trend or even be color coordinated. Just remember deodorant.

I don't like the way I look. People will see my flab.
Give yourself one month. Just one month and this feeling will go away. I promise.
This shouldn't be a fear. People of all shapes and sizes have a gym membership and use it.
Who's to say which size is right? Really, it's society's fault that women and men have some image of perfectionism. Screw that image. Get yourself into the gym, give yourself one month and you'll find a new level of confidence. Try going at times other than peak hours until you are more comfortable. Overtime, you may have lost a few pounds or the number on the scale may be the same as day one. But what you gain from your time in the gym is what you need to focus on. We all go to the gym for the same reason, improvement.

I may hurt myself.
While this is a completely legitimate fear it is, also one, that can be easily dealt with.
If need be, speak with your doctor before starting any routine, getting clearance and special instructions for your gym plan. Check your gyms website for classes geared towards any special needs that you may have. Most gyms offer classes at different levels for this very reason.
Read the details regarding each class available until you find the one best suited for you. A good gym will have instructors trained to catch weak form that could result in injury. After taking a few classes you will find yourself more comfortable and knowledgeable of your skill level. Learn a few, good stretches. Stretching will help prevent soreness and that awkward stiff walk.

I sweat like a pig. Breathe heavily. And look like death after a workout.
I am this person every time I hit the gym!
The quote, 'if you look cute after a workout, you didn't do it right'...explains it best.
I prefer to think, I'm glistening after a workout. And, any chic finishing a sweaty set is pretty damn hot.  Every one of us sweats while we workout. We want that to happen. Our core temperature raises during a good workout and sweating is one of the body's ways to regulate this. You want to sweat. Breathing heavily is ok too. You should aim for a comfortable rhythm. Listen to music, it will drown out the sound of your breathing and give you a tempo. You do not want to be gasping or hacking. That is not healthy and no, no one would appreciate the latter of the two.

I don't know which Gym to join.
This is a big fear for many and understandably so. With so many options...how do you chose?
Begin with walking in. Simple as that. Visit your area gyms, ask for a trial membership. Most gyms offer a few days free to help you with your decision. During this time you should look for a wide range of equipment, class availability, an indoor track if you prefer that over a treadmill, a swimming pool, a sauna, daycare options, after school care....any of these options that may influence your decision. Make a list of your needs and what you want most from your gym membership. After each tour take a few minutes to cross compare with your list and make a note of the open and closing times of each gym.
Obviously, money is a factor but if possible, not a deciding factor. If you are, at all, serious about this membership you will find yourself spending a lot of time here and the quality of the gym and its resources will far outweigh a few dollars of savings per month.

The gym is boring. I'll get bored and quit.
If this is one of your fears you may want to look at back at "which gym to join"
Your gym should have a variety of options available to you, preventing boredom.
Set up a schedule for the week, create a colorful calendar, to keep you rotating through different pieces of equipment or classes. Focus on upper body one day and lower body another day.
Taking a spin class on Tuesdays and Pilates or Yoga class on Thursdays. Classes are a great way to expose yourself to exercises and routines you may not have known about and also gives you a chance to meet other people. Gym buddies will save you from boredom!

The gym is dirty.
The gym can be a very dirty place. A good gym will supply sanitizing spray bottles, use these, unfortunately you can't trust that other members have cleaned the equipment after use. Bring a towel with you. A good workout may include some floor time, you'll feel better about laying your head on your own towel. Wash your hands before and after your time spent in the gym and of course cover any cuts and scrapes with appropriate dressings or clothes.


If you still have fear towards the gym and aren't quite ready to start, dedicate time to working out at home or in your neighborhood. You can, certainly, grab a DVD and some pieces for a home gym.
Eventually you'll find your stride and head right into the gym.
Once you go a few times, you'll have a new confidence towards the gym.

No one was born with the perfect body and really, it doesn't exist.
And as they say, no one walks in the gym a master of its equipment.

Get yourself a good pair of gym shoes and be comfortable in your sweaty skin.

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Other fears not discussed? 

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